Year 2020, its flash from the past and affirmations for new beginning

Yamini
6 min readDec 27, 2020

When 2020 was started it was really exciting year and everyone including me was expecting something and I don’t say I didn’t spend it nice way or didn’t get good things no it is as what it was. I say it was a different year than any other year.

I hear only few things mostly in the year 2020 are the virus outbreak, the pandemic arouse and life of many has changed. Then what i see is some of the lives are effected by outbreak then many of the people have started their new phase by choosing what they ever wanted to do. Do you people find something here? People have adopted to the new lifestyle, new hygienic way of living, flowing with the work maintaining social distancing also started making boundries with the people, knowing the most important people in their lives, knowing which is their actual home. I say not no to the people who lost many things because of the uninvited guest of 2020 then it was teached us the very important lesson which we would have never learnt without this attack on us.

We have seen the army of people standing for the welfare of the people and ofcourse for the country. May be the development phase has slowed down then the development was not gone we started to change for better and adapted to this change and because of which we got to know many things.

Time is most valuable thing than any other thing which when utilized in a proper way and enjoyed it is the time never wasted in your life and you get the things you wanted. It never stops its rotation and never waits for someone you have to carry it every single second and it is always with you. So to the most important person give your time and effort so they can never leave you. Because it is not whom you want or who talks about or who stays or who does the things then what you do in the time and how you are making use of the time you have and what has to be there will come to the place. No worries, no disappointments.

Life is made of your choices and it should not be for people pleasing then it has to be made for your welfare and always has to be for the people. Let me elaborate you are going to start a food truck which is the food from home or something like healthy on the go. Now you opened shop so that people buy your food, you opened for the people then it is not what people want you to do. Don’t do anything for someother then it has to be from your likes,interests and talent so that you made your contribution. If you do for people pleasing you are doing for the accolade of the people it is not what you wanted to do. Got the difference!

You have to give your happiness with least expectation of the other so that you get your happiness from the world. It is not what you give or take then what you wanted to do or give and receive what you deserve. Then sometimes it be like i didn’t get what I wanted, it’s not like that in broader picture don’t compromise on the things you have given or shown the care to the your people or your world may be they have nothing in their hands so you have to believe in the supreme power that one day you are going to receive all the love for all the good things you have done to the world.

Service to man is the service to the god

It does’t matter about who the people are and what they are doing with you unless it gets affected or it gets worse or its stopping you from being innate self. Do the right any way.

If you value your integrity then be prepared to receive the beating from those who have none

Run at your own pace there is no one above you or below you. You are your own competition. You cannot compete with other person then yourself, you always have to be better than yesterday. Eventhough sometimes you are seen above or below it is not the superiority or inferiority then its just your goal to reach that superior position and there is nothing like you are less than someone or greater than someone.

There is no wrong time to do the right thing then it is the right attitude of doing the things will produce the desired results. Anything is not permanent not even your worries, sadness or gloomy days. So just cheer up in the bad times and laugh at it and sometime it goes way from you and bring out the light to the world.

Do not let the darkness around kill the sparkle inside you.

It is always you who decide the things you want and all the others are just advices of the people because the consequences are all yours.

You are just one decision away from a totally different life

One more important reminder is anything should not be based on what was said or what is being followed then as said Steve Jobs said

“Have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become.”

Every year is worth enjoying and doing everything you want to there are no stops there are only commas to your journey. So don’t search for excuses and don’t be lazy for doing the things you wanted to do. Always know you are worth the life and struggle to win. You cannot be a loser.

You are not failed until you quit trying

We can face anything and come out of it with glowing light and lot experiences. It always or never has to best then everything has a lesson or a blessing. It is not because of you or your effort was not right then it is sometimes because that the other side has some issues with itself. It was so struck up it could not reach you. Always be positive.

Keep spreading the smiles to the world which is lacking in the growing world. Bring up the smiles.

Photo by saiid bel on Unsplash

Some points to have a good year and make longlasting year:

  1. Do what makes you happy. Live with passion and other negative eneregy drains off.
  2. Time passes and so it is how you utilize it not what you have it or got it.
  3. Kill the ego because it only destroys the things.
  4. Improve your skills,talents and learn whatever you like it because no one knows everything and everyone knows something.
  5. Age does’t matter until you have the will to do the things. You can become anything and learn anything at any point of time.
  6. When you have tried there is no way you have regrets. When you quit before you try assuming you fail you regret it tomorrow.
  7. Beauty begins the moment you decide to be yourself
  8. There is no beauty that shines brighter than the good heart
  9. It is only you who is going to be with yourself and other people are part of your journey. So keep yourself always going with your heart and intuition.
  10. Think before you act. You have to live yours not kill others. Make yourself a priority otherwise you will always become someone’s option.
  11. Last one and finally, Be you,do you and for you. Be your authentic self.

I have send you some good wishes to you and shared some of the good thoughts with you. Please like it and share your opinions I would be happy reading them all. Thanks and keep spreading your wings and by always keeping the smile on the face. Advance happy new year 2021.

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Yamini

Blogger, Achiever, Data science aspirant, Soulful person, Optimist